Many male thought that women are hard to understand. They are full of inconsistent, out of reach, unreasonable requests that were impossible to give. The truth is, because women manage on different wavelength than do men and as a result move toward life from another perspective, they show more complex.
The major cause of depression among women is having a low self-esteem. Even in cheerful and healthy married young women, personal inferiority and self-doubt harm the most and left the wicked scars.
Perhaps, one of the many reasons why women have low self-esteem is because of the idea that if a woman is a full time housewife they are worthless. The media are broadcasting more that the woman’s worth is calculated only in stipulations of her financial asset to the family and her input to the business world. Becoming a working mother should be an open option but not to the expense of withering the role of wife and mother.
A mother with low self-esteem will have a negative influence over her children. They will tend to disrespect her as well since she doesn’t respect herself either. Children who have low self-esteem mothers often inherited this poor character trait.
A low self-esteem woman will more likely not enjoy being a female. She will struggle against adjusting herself to her husband’s wishes; she may weep for her lot in life and complain endlessly. It’s difficult to love others if you don’t love yourself.
Sexual life will be affected because of low self-esteem. A woman who doesn’t like the way she looks or doesn’t like a certain part of her body will constantly hide and make effort to forget that she has a woman’s body – for instance, insisting to make love in total darkness.
A low self-concept will affect home making capability. A full time housewife though successfully clean and manage household chores but my feel unsatisfied.
A man gets self-respect through job promotions, pay raises, annual evaluations, bonuses and praise. The only source to get such encouragement of a home maker is from her husband. The unhappiest women are those who lack understanding from their husbands.
Husbands must take her wife out at least once a week. Make a special day every week to take your wife out away from children and household chores. Dating with her assures her of your love and helping her develop a healthy self-respect.
Allow your wife to join clubs about self improvements and hobby class. She will enjoy more her tasks because of the new inputs she learned outside the home.
Helping your wife do some household duties or hiring some young people to help your wife do her jobs make her happy and less tired at the end of the day.
You must have an open communication with your wife. You must listen to her and help her to lessen her burden. You must spend quality and quantity time with your family. No matter how busy you are in your current job, you must find time for your family.
Most often women need understanding than solution. When she feels that her husband appears uninterested, she may aggravate a quarrel by selecting an irrelevant point and blowing it all out of proportion. At this point she actually doesn’t want an argument but only wants her husband to know how she feels.
Women are emotional while men are logical. Though women do not usually consider a situation but a mentally mature woman through intuition, her advice prove reasonably trustworthy.
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